Maybe you're wondering why there are people who seem to be happy all the time..looks like they don't even have a scratch of problem. sometimes you're jealous with people who have everything even some of them don't deserve to be in their places. and then you're start thinking, why them, why not me or vice versa. some of us will curse or blame others for not having or being what we want. what's worst? some blame God...and some, doesn't recognize him at all.
my point here is not actually discussing about religious matters. i strongly believe that whatever happens to us, whoever we become are all because of what we choose to have and to be. is there a destiny? i don't know- there may be.. but also maybe depends on how we decide on things for our self. it's also true that opportunity comes along. its not luck, opportunity becomes luck when you choose it and manage it successfully. still, that opportunity that may bring changes to your life depends on 2 things, yes or no. the bottom line is, we still choose.
how do people manage to be happy, and abundant, and alive in spite of tragedies, failures, mistakes, rejections and all negative stuff? i'll tell you, they're not happy at all. sometimes you need to fake it, to make it. not all Hollywood stars are lucky with their lives. that's why we found some of them commit suicide, adultery, theft, and unlawful acts. not all businessmen are wealthy and has big bucks in their savings. always remember that the bigger assets, the bigger the debt. not all famous and beautiful people are real, that's why the fad is plastic surgery and adobe. not all influential people are powerful, they just have connections.
see how our world is different? physical appearance doesn't imply what's inside because it's inside. but what's inside can show us what's the real outside.
it is true that not all poor people are nothing. poverty and destitution means an opportunity for all of us. what's the next level for people who has the highest position in their jobs, or rankings in an organization, or level in world's richest people? NOTHING! which means whatever they do, two things may only happen, stay in their place or go down..to the deepest down. and when they go down, that means losing everything.
people with nothing, doesn't need to be jealous, nor consider their selves as useless that's unethical. i can consider myself as poor. coz all things that i possess are all borrowed to him...up there. all i need to do and all we need to do is to learn how to flip things over. what i mean is, we are all equal. if elite people can smile..we can too. famous people are treated so special, we deserve to be treated same way. high-ranking officials have protection and power, we deserve more than them because we are civilians. sometimes, it's just the way we think and the way our perceptions work. if we you see yourself as weak or nothing, just ordinary, hen that's the end of your story. do not expect changes. but if you start thinking and saying to yourself that you will be what you want to be then there's a promise. potential comes when there's theory. all we need are proof and capabilities...mathematics.
we can be what we want to be and being poor or nothing at all is not a hindrance on one's success. just learn how to play things safely and healthy. no need to use people for an advantage just use resources that is not against human and God's law. you can say, this idea is stupid or extremely hard to achieve, yeah maybe..but who told you? who's stopping you? if people we're able to reach moon..it means it's possible. so people became rich, famous, powerful, all of these are possible to you, and to all of us coz they already happened to others not because of luck but because that's what they chose to be. again, you just need to learn how to flip things over. if you're poor, nothing, disabled, or anything, flip yourself over and be what you want to be. easy to say but its easier if you act on it. dreams are associated with fantasies because they really don't happen. it will only become reality if there's an action.
plans...goals.. they're just stepping stones but will not be accomplished if there's no action. feelings, idea, knowledge, won't go anywhere if you do nothing to them. that's why life is described as anything that breathes, move, multiply...coz if not? of course that's dead..not moving, no actions, no response. DEAD. are you dead? so move and flip things over and be happy for the rest of your life
